Coping With Advanced Alzheimer's Disease

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Advanced Alzheimer's disease can bring many changes for your loved one that you may not have thought about. Caregiving for someone in this later stage can become even more challenging.

Alzheimer's disease is progressive, which means it will get worse in stages over time. In the early stages, when it is just beginning, symptoms might be mild; however, in the late stages, people with dementia often depend completely on others for support with basic activities of daily living.

Caregiving Coping Strategies for Advanced Alzheimer's

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As it progresses and your loved one's symptoms and abilities change, you will need different information to help you support them. By learning how the disease progresses, it can help you plan for the future. This information is specifically about late-stage/advanced Alzheimer's and what to expect. 

Alzheimer's disease accounts for 60% to 80% of all dementia cases. It is a brain disorder that slowly destroys memory and cognitive skills. Over time, physical symptoms develop, and it affects the ability to carry out straightforward tasks. Alzheimer's is irreversible and the sixth leading cause of death in the United States.

Seek Help When You Are Ready

A diagnosis of Alzheimer's can be overwhelming for both the person diagnosed and their family. There is a lot of information to take in, but you can take it one step at a time. Only you can decide when it is the right time to seek more information. Support is available when you decide to find out more.


The emotional impact of advanced Alzheimer's can be hard-hitting for all involved. The growing requirement of support for activities of daily living, changes in family roles and dynamics, and the emotional distress of witnessing the progression of Alzheimer's can be upsetting. 

In the late stages, a person with Alzheimer's may be experiencing distressing symptoms such as severe impairment in memory, the inability to process information, disorientation to time and place, and difficulty producing recognizable speech. The patient might also have difficulties recognizing family members.

These all have a significant emotional impact, as the person has to rely fully on other people for support either in a long-term care facility or with full-time care at home. 

When offering emotional support to someone with late-stage Alzheimer's disease, consider their life history, feelings, likes, and dislikes. Three ways to connect with and emotionally support someone with advanced Alzheimer's are reminiscing, engaging their senses, and considering spirituality.

Reminisce: You can reminisce with someone by sharing stories, photographs, and videos of past events. Remember the good, the happy, and the enjoyable times. Reminiscing is a way of giving a person validation. It shows them that you "see" them. It validates their "being" and their history. 

Engage their senses: Verbal communication can become challenging in the late stages of Alzheimer's. However, there are other positive ways to communicate and connect through the senses:

  • Talk to them about everyday things. Just let them hear the sound of your voice and include them in your daily news.
  • Putting on music is also a great way to comfort someone. Pick the music they have always loved and enjoyed listening to.
  • Television or videos can be soothing to watch.
  • Getting outside stimulates all the senses. Sitting in the garden together is time well spent, especially if they can smell their favorite flowers nearby and hear the birds singing.
  • Use the sense of touch. Hold their hand or help them stroke their beloved pet.

Consider spirituality: If someone with Alzheimer's disease has been part of a faith/spiritual community, then try to include that as an ongoing part of their life. Keeping the same rituals, support, and friends around them can be a huge comfort. It is familiar and part of their identity. 

If you are a family member, friend, or caregiver to someone with Alzheimer's, it is vital not to forget about your own emotional well-being. Joining a support group can allow you to find respite, express your worries, share experiences and advice, and receive emotional comfort. 

There are programs, helplines, and support services available to connect you with both peers and professionals. A good place to start is by speaking to your family healthcare provider so they can point you in the direction of support. 

Don't forget that you will also need some time for yourself and to practice self-care. Looking after your physical and mental health will enable you to better support your loved one.


When reaching the advanced stages of Alzheimer's, people cannot communicate and will rely on others for all their care. Physical symptoms such as being unable to walk, unable to sit without support, and difficulty swallowing develop in the latter stage of the disease. 

Due to the extensive care requirements faced, it may not be possible to provide the required level of care at home, even with additional support services. To ensure your loved one gets the care they need, a long-term care facility may end up being the best option for your family.

This can be a tough decision and may differ from the plans you had decided on in earlier stages. Regardless of where the care takes place, the decision is about ensuring the person with Alzheimer's receives the right level of care to meet all their needs. 

Whether care takes place at home or in a facility, the main objective should be enhancing the quality of life. If you decide that care at home, with assistance, is the best option, it's useful to consider the following physical problems:

Movement and Comfort 

When a person with Alzheimer's loses the ability to move independently, it is important to speak to the medical team about the support available to you. The healthcare provider can organize referrals to relevant healthcare professionals such as a physical therapist, nurse, home health aide, or occupational therapist. They can advise you on:

  • How to move a person safely without hurting yourself or them
  • How often you should help them change position
  • Special mattresses and pillows that help with positioning and reduce the risk of bedsores
  • Special chairs and wheelchairs for sitting
  • How to do range of motion exercises to prevent stiffness and bedsores

Nonverbal Signs

During all caregiving activities, it is essential to pay attention to nonverbal signs. Signs of pain or discomfort might manifest in hand gestures, spoken sounds like groaning or shouting, or facial expressions like wincing. 

Eating and Swallowing Problems

In the advanced stages of Alzheimer's disease, a person can lose interest in food and develop swallowing problems. A dietitian can help you understand their dietary needs, meal planning, and how to maintain nourishment.

When encouraging eating, the following tips might help. However, everyone is different, and different tips work for different people. You might have to try a few things to find what helps with mealtimes:

  • Ensure the mealtime environment is calm, quiet, and free of distractions.
  • Serve meals at the same time every day when possible.
  • Ensure the person eating is upright, comfortable, and has appropriate support.
  • Make foods you know the person enjoys.
  • Check that dentures are fitted properly.
  • Don't rush mealtimes; leave plenty of time for the person to eat.
  • You may find that several smaller, snack-size meals are easier for the person to eat than three full-size meals.
  • Encourage fluids (and thicken them if necessary).
  • Try not to overload the plate with too many options.
  • If swallowing is difficult, ask your dietitian or speech and language therapist for advice on the easiest and safest foods to provide.
  • Monitor the person's weight so you can track if weight loss or malnourishment occurs.

Swallowing Difficulties Can Be Serious

Chewing and swallowing problems can lead to other serious concerns such as choking or breathing food/liquid into the lungs. When food/liquid reaches the lungs, it can cause pneumonia, which can lead to death in someone who is weak and battling Alzheimer's.

If you notice chewing and swallowing problems beginning to occur, seek help early from a medical professional. They can assess the person's swallowing and advise you on the safest way to manage swallowing problems.

Personal Care, Dental, and Skin Concerns

When a person loses the ability to move around, paying attention to their personal care, dental, and skin needs is vital. If left unattended, dental problems or pressure sores can lead to infection. Personal health tips include:

  • Change the person's position every two hours to help avoid pressure sores and improve circulation. 
  • Protect at-risk, bony areas with pads or pillows.
  • At this stage, skin can become fragile and easily damaged. Therefore, when washing the skin, be very gentle and dab/blot dry rather than rubbing roughly.
  • Check areas prone to pressure sores regularly, including the buttocks, heels, shoulders, elbows, hips, and back.
  • Ensure the feet are regularly cared for with gentle bathing, moisturizing, and nails filed/trimmed.
  • Pay attention to oral hygiene and check for mouth sores, decayed teeth, lumps, and food that has been pocketed in the mouth.
  • Ensure adequate hydration, but limit liquids closer to bedtime.
  • Monitor bowel movements and set a toileting schedule.
  • Use incontinence pads and mattress covers if required.
  • Treat any cuts and scrapes immediately, however small, to prevent infection.

Remember, healthcare professionals are available to support and advise you. Whether it be foot care, support with swallowing, advice on seating, or help with movement, your healthcare provider can refer you to a range of specialists to assist you with any physical care concerns you have. You are not alone.  


Being the caregiver for someone with advanced Alzheimer's disease can be emotionally and physically tiring. You will need support for yourself, so it is worth considering the following advice:

  • Join an Alzheimer's support group for caregivers, friends, and family members.
  • Look for online communities such as the Verywell communities on social media.
  • Read up on Alzheimer's so you feel prepared for what is ahead at every stage.
  • Try to keep up with social activities you enjoy to help prevent loneliness and isolation.
  • Monitor your own physical and mental health.
  • Use respite care options to take time for yourself.
  • Be aware that grieving can happen at every stage of Alzheimer's as you grieve the losses caused by the disease.
  • Try to find the humor and fun in situations.
  • Seek professional support if it all becomes too overwhelming.


Ideally, discussions about financial planning, care planning, end-of-life care, and legal planning should occur while the person with Alzheimer's still has the capacity to make decisions. These can be difficult conversations to begin, but knowing their wishes can help with decisions in the disease's advanced stages. 

If you feel uncomfortable having these conversations, reach out to your care team for support. Sometimes it is easier to broach a difficult topic if a third party or health professional is present and can lead the conversation.

Encouraging a person to plan for their future helps them know you will meet their wishes in the late stages of Alzheimer's disease. Your local support groups can advise you on what issues need to be addressed and who can help you address them. 

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By Helen Massy
Helen Massy, BSc, is a freelance medical and health writer with over a decade of experience working in the UK National Health Service as a physiotherapist and clinical specialist for respiratory disease.