The 10 Best Gifts for People with Dementia of 2021

Holiday shopping for your loved ones can be extremely difficult, especially if your friend or family member suffers from the memory disorder dementia. However, according to Carolyn Fredericks, MD, a Yale Medicine neurologist specializing in memory disorders, choosing the right gift just takes a little more thought and creativity. 

Dr. Fredericks explains that there are a bunch of different gift options you should consider. The first? Anything to keep their body active. “As winter approaches and it’s harder to exercise outside, how about a recumbent bike or other home exercise equipment? We know that regular exercise can help prevent dementia in older adults, including those with mild cognitive impairment,” she explains. “There’s even some evidence that people with dementia may be able to keep doing their daily activities longer if they exercise regularly.”

Any type of gift that involves photos or memories is another great option. “People with more advanced dementia may not remember names and details, but feelings stick with them,” she points out. “A photo book full of happy memories will likely make them smile, even if they can’t name everyone in their photos—or consider a beautiful coffee table book featuring photos of a favorite travel destination of theirs.” 

Also consider gifts that entertain. “Light-hearted movies that make them laugh are a great choice. Music that reminds them of old times can also be a great source of happiness (or tickets to online performances!). My grandmother, who suffered from Alzheimer’s disease, was a lifelong opera fan, and even near the end of her life, playing Verdi would make her light up with joy,” she says. 

Gifts that can help someone with dementia express their creativity can also be a wonderful choice. Adult coloring books, markers, colored pencils, and simple crafting materials can bring hours of creative fun during the winter months.

Keep in mind that there is no better gift for someone with dementia than time. “During this difficult and isolated time, it can be hard or unsafe to come together with our loved ones in person. If you are lucky enough to be able to be with your loved one with dementia in person, spending time together over the holidays can be better than any material gift,” she points out. “Cook a favorite meal or bake a holiday treat together, with your loved one helping to whatever extent he or she can. Pop some popcorn and watch a movie, listen to music together—better yet, get up and dance!”

If you're looking for a little inspiration when shopping for your loved one with dementia, we recommend taking a look at the following.