Sexual Health List of Erogenous Zones for Better Intimacy By Molly Burford Molly Burford LinkedIn Molly Burford is a mental health advocate and wellness book author with almost 10 years of experience in digital media. Learn about our editorial process Published on August 04, 2022 Medically reviewed by Lauren Schlanger, MD Medically reviewed by Lauren Schlanger, MD LinkedIn Lauren Schlanger, MD, is a board-certified primary care physician. She is an assistant professor at the Alpert Medical School of Brown University. Learn about our Medical Expert Board Print Table of Contents View All Table of Contents About Erogenous Zones Non-Genital Zones Try Solo-Play Frequently Asked Questions Sexual health is important for your overall health and well-being. Sexual health encompasses everything from getting routinely screened for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) to simply knowing what you like in the bedroom. One way to improve your sex life is by knowing your erogenous zones. Essentially, an erogenous zone is any part of the body that can trigger sexual arousal when touched. For example, the nape of your neck or your wrist can potentially elicit pleasurable feelings when stimulated. That said, everyone's erogenous zones are different. Knowing both your and your partner's erogenous zones will enhance your sexual experiences. This article will discuss what you need to know about erogenous zones. Kyle Monk / Getty Images Why Are Erogenous Zones Stimulating? Certain areas of the body, including the erogenous zones, have a higher density of touch receptors. This is why your fingertips are more sensitive to touch than your elbow. Touch receptors respond to touch and convey the information via your nervous system to an area of the brain called the somatosensory cortex. Not only does the somatosensory cortex process sensory information, but it's also involved in regulating our emotions and moods. Immediate Gratification vs. Foreplay When it comes to sex, the build-up is everything. While reaching orgasm immediately may sound appealing to some, foreplay is a crucial component for both reaching orgasm and experiencing one to its fullest potential. Try using slow, erotic touching to explore your and your partner's erogenous zones and build arousal. Nerve Bundles Nerves are the nervous system's main communicators, carrying electrical signals to and from different parts of the body. A collection of nerve endings is known as a nerve bundle. Erogenous zones are thought to contain many nerve bundles, which is why they are so sensitive to touch. Non-Genital Zones Everyone is different, but in general, these are believed to be the most common non-genital erogenous zones: Head and hairEyes and templesCheeksMouth/lipsEarsNape of neckShoulder bladesUpper backUpper armsBreasts/chestNipplesStomachBelly buttonForearmsWristsHandsFingersSidesLower backHipsOuter thighsButtocksBack of thighsInner thighsPubic hairlineBehind knees Below the Waist When it comes to genital erogenous zones, the most common include: Clitoris Penis Vagina Scrotum Perineum Try Solo-Play Solo-play, aka masturbation, is a great way to explore your sexuality, learn about your body, and become in-tune with what you might enjoy during partnered sex. After taking time to learn about your bodies individually, you can decide to give mutual masturbation a go. Some tips for a healthy masturbation practice include: Washing hands before and afterKeeping nails cleanAvoiding eye area while masturbatingNot sharing sex toysProperly cleaning sex toys after each use Summary Erogenous zones are parts of the body that trigger sexual arousal when stimulated. These include both genital and non-genital areas. Knowing your and your partner's non-genital erogenous zones can help enhance your sex life. But, of course, everybody will have different erogenous zones, which is why exploration, partnered or otherwise, can be helpful. Communicating with your sexual partners about each other's preferences is absolutely key to a safe, happy, and healthy sex life. A Word From Verywell Sexual health is important for both physical and mental well-being. In fact, there are a number of health benefits associated with having sex, including improved memory and less stress. What makes sex good will vary from person to person, couple to couple. However, knowing what parts of your body are the most sexually stimulating can be incredibly helpful for making sex enjoyable. Frequently Asked Questions Does sex or gender impact the amount of erogenous zones a person has? It's unlikely. In truth, no two people have the same type or number of erogenous zones. Should you ask your partner if they’re into sensual touching? Yes. You should always discuss your sexual preferences with your partner. Consent is absolutely fundamental to having safe, enjoyable sex. Are sexual pressure points real? Sexual pressure points are real. Some research shows that touching your partner creates more intimacy and lowers stress. 4 Sources Verywell Health uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read our editorial process to learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy. Maister L, Fotopoulou A, Turnbull O, Tsakiris M. 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