Finger Cots for Safer Sex

A finger cot, also known as a "finger condom" or "finger glove," is a flexible tube-like cap that covers a finger. Finger cots are often used to keep finger wounds dry but can also be used for safer sex when fingering or performing an anal massage. Finger cots can be purchased online and in some drugstores. You can also make them by cutting a finger off a latex or nitrile glove.

A finger cot can be an effective barrier device if you're only using only one finger. They can reduce the risk of certain sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) like HPV (which can affect fingers and other exposed areas of skin). Finger cots are often more comfortable than gloves for people with large or unusually shaped hands.

Finger cots can even be stretched over smaller sex toys or vibrators to prevent fomite infection (transmission of an STD from an object).

Pros and Cons

Although finger cots were a standard part of HIV education in the 1980s and 1990s, they're not as commonly used today. However, they are available in most drugstores, typically in the wound care section, and can be purchased online.

For most people, gloves are easier to use. They cover all of the hand and, if sized correctly, fit like a second skin. With gloves, you don't have to think as much during sex or worry about exposed skin. If nothing else, gloves are less likely to roll up or fall off during sex.

Another downside is that finger cots are small and easy to lose during sex. While frustrating, this is not a major concern in the vagina. As a closed system, a woman can usually fish around and pull it out herself.

A finger cot can be more problematic if lost in the rectum. Although it will usually come out during a bowel movement, there have been rare cases where medical treatment is needed to locate and remove a "stuck" cot.

On the other hand, gloves remove the tactile sensitivity that many people enjoy during sex. When used properly, a finger cot allows you to finger genitals without feeling like you are wrapped in cling film. Some people will even put them on all five fingers, providing protection without the constriction one experiences with gloves.

How to Use a Finger Cot

Unlike condoms, finger cots are not individually wrapped but are sold in a dispenser box with anywhere from 36 to 300 cots per box. The rules governing their use are similar to those used for condoms:

1. Before applying the cot, trim and files your fingernail so that it won't rip the latex. The skin should also be dry and not covered with lubricant to reduce the risk of slippage.
2. Each finger cot looks like a rolled-up beanie. To apply the cot, place it on your finger with the rolled rim exposed. (If the rim is tucked under, you're putting it on the wrong way.)
3. Roll the cot all the way down toward the base of the finger. Smooth out any air pocket and check that there are no rips and holes. If there are, throw the cot away and use another one.
4. Use a lubricant to reduce friction and the risk of breakage. If the finger cot is latex, use only water-based or silicone-based lubes. Oil-based lubes can degrade the latex and cause breakage.
5. After use, remove the finger cot and dispose of it in a wastebasket (not the toilet). Wash your hands with warm water and soap.

Finger cots can be safely stored at room temperature but are damaged by excessive heat or direct sun exposure. Keep them in a cool, dry cabinet or drawer.

If the finger cots have expired, look damaged or discolored, or smell funny, throw them away. Finger cots are relatively cheap and easy to replace.