Seeing the Doctor How to Encourage a Doctor's Visit Common Conversation Issues Healthcare Barriers By Abby Norman facebook twitter linkedin Abby Norman is a freelance science writer and editor. She is also the author of "Ask Me About My Uterus: A Quest to Make Doctors Believe in Women's Pain." She is an advocate for women's health. Learn about our editorial process Abby Norman Medically reviewed by Medically reviewed by Steven Gans, MD on January 27, 2020 Steven Gans, MD, is board-certified in psychiatry and is an active supervisor, teacher, and mentor at Massachusetts General Hospital. Learn about our Medical Review Board Steven Gans, MD Updated on April 22, 2020 Our Conversation Coach Can Help If you have a loved one who refuses to see a medical professional, be it skipping an annual check-up or resisting a visit when they’re hurt or sick, you might be worried about the effect their avoidance will have on their health. You may need to address the importance of seeking routine medical care with them, especially if they have risk factors for a silent condition (such as osteoporosis or arthritis) or if they are experiencing symptoms they think will resolve on their own (such as bone pain or joint pain). It may take more than one conversation, and you may find it difficult to get started—or keep the chat’s momentum going, especially if you sense your loved one is shutting you out. Our Conversation Coach can help avoid communication pitfalls by simulating a respectful and effective conversation between you and your loved one. It’ll provide you with clear and accurate talking points to help encourage a doctor’s visit, both for preventive care and in response to symptoms. Note: The conversations below address encouraging an elder to visit the doctor in response to a fall or for preventive care, but can be applied to other loved ones and situations in your life as needed. Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Sign up for our Health Tip of the Day newsletter, and receive daily tips that will help you live your healthiest life. Sign Up You're in! Thank you, {{form.email}}, for signing up. There was an error. Please try again. What are your concerns? Other Inaccurate Hard to Understand Submit