How to Survive in School When You Have IBS

Talk to a School Counselor

Most schools offer free counseling sessions. Make an appointment with your school guidance counselor and initiate a relationship. This will help you feel as if you have a trusted ally close at hand.

The counselor can help you to navigate your way through your dealings with other staff members, such as teachers and professors, who may not be as sensitive to your health difficulties.

On a more practical note, many students with IBS have found it comforting to be able to use the restroom in the guidance counselor or nurse's office.

Get a 504 Plan

If necessary, you could look into the possibility of having a 504 plan drawn up. This legal protection comes to you from Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973 and is designed to protect people who have disabilities from being discriminated upon. IBS is considered to be a qualifying condition for protection under this act.

A 504 plan will ensure that you will receive any needed accommodations to perform to your potential. You can get special access to restrooms, modified class schedules, and even modified school assignments — whatever will help you to perform to your potential. (You will find a link for more information about 504 plans for IBS at the end of this slideshow.)

Tell a Few Close Friends

Social support is critical when dealing with chronic illness. Don’t let the nature of IBS symptoms make you feel too embarrassed to talk to your friends about what you are dealing with. The stress of covering up symptoms can serve to worsen your condition. Pick a few of your most trusted friends and educate them about your needs.

Take note of the word "trusted." Not every person will be kind or sensitive. Some people may even betray your confidence and broadcast your situation to others. Assess the "trustworthiness" of your friends before taking them into your confidence.

Eat Carefully

Although the optimist within me would like to think that school cafeterias have become more health-focused, the realist within me says otherwise. My recollection is that school cafeterias excel in serving fatty, greasy foods — foods that pose the risk of overstimulating the gastrocolic reflex, resulting in painful abdominal cramping. In many cases, it may be wiser to prepare and pack your own food. (Articles as to how to eat for IBS will be listed in the last slide.)

Keep Your Body Calm

Offset the stress of school through the use of active relaxation strategies. Many people have found that a regular meditation or yoga practice results in a calmer body. You can also teach yourself relaxation skills to use throughout your school day. (Again, links for instructions will be found at the end of this slideshow.)

Pace Yourself

As you probably well know, there is a link between IBS and stress. Being stressed out can make your IBS symptoms worse. Therefore, try to manage your school responsibilities in a calm, planned-out way. Don't overdo things when feeling well — but don't leave things for the last minute either. Try to organize your workload in a way that reduces any feelings of being overwhelmed.

Don't Try to Be Perfect

In a way that seems to be different than with other health problems, it has been my experience that many people who have IBS try extra hard to be seen in a positive light by others. It is as if the sense that because one does not have control over their own bodies, one has to work extra hard to be in control of other things. Not only is this pressure undeserved (who has control over their bodies?), but it puts additional stress on the body and mind, which could then worsen symptoms.