End of Life Concerns Grief & Bereavement Your To-Do List After a Loved One Dies By Angela Morrow, RN Angela Morrow, RN LinkedIn Angela Morrow, RN, BSN, CHPN, is a certified hospice and palliative care nurse. Learn about our editorial process Updated on May 23, 2020 Fact checked by Marley Hall Fact checked by Marley Hall LinkedIn Marley Hall is a writer and fact checker who is certified in clinical and translational research. Her work has been published in medical journals in the field of surgery, and she has received numerous awards for publication in education. Learn about our editorial process Print Although your grief after the death of a friend or family member can make it difficult to focus on day-to-day tasks, there is no way around the fact that you must still attend to several things that need to be done. Here's a list of what needs to be done immediately after a death occurs and in the weeks and months that follow. Who To Call at the Time of Death wundervisuals/istock For deaths that occur at home, it's important to know who to call. If your loved one is a hospice patient, call the hospice agency to report the death. A hospice nurse will come to the home and pronounce the death. The nurse might also call a mortuary or funeral home for you and arrange for pick up of the body. If your loved one is not a hospice patient, you must call emergency services (911) to notify the local police or sheriff of the death. A coroner or medical examiner might also be required at the scene if the death was sudden or unexpected. Make Funeral Arrangements Whether a hospice nurse makes the call or you call yourself, you'll need to contact the funeral home to arrange for pickup of the deceased's body. If funeral arrangements have been made in advance of the death, all you'll need to do is confirm the arrangements with the funeral director. If no funeral arrangements were made in advance, you will need to begin planning a funeral or arrange for cremation services. Contact the Attorney and Accountant Consult with the family attorney, or contact an estate lawyer, who will help settle your loved one's estate and any final instructions that must be accommodated. Locate and review any estate documents, including a will, trust, and power of attorney. Some financial documents to look for include: Bank statementsBearer bondsBrokerage statementsDeedsPrenuptial agreementStock certificatesTitle documents Examples of assets include life insurance policies, bank accounts, investment accounts, real-estate ownership, retirement accounts, and business ownership. Liabilities might include mortgages, owed taxes, credit card debt, and unpaid bills. Contact Employers If your loved one was employed, ask a human resources representative at the company about any outstanding compensation due. Find out whether surviving dependents are still eligible for health or insurance benefits and whether there is a life insurance policy through the company. Contact Social Security Contact the Social Security Administration (SSA) and any other agency that might be making monthly payments to the deceased. Find out if survivors are entitled to any further benefits. The SSA's phone number is 1-800-772-1213 (TTY 1-800-325-0778) or you can visit the SSA website for more information. Contact the VA (if Applicable) If your loved one served in the Armed Forces, the Veterans Administration may cover death, burial, and memorial benefits. They will also stop any monthly payments that the deceased may have been receiving. Contact Life Insurance Companies Beyond employer-sponsored life insurance, some people purchase whole or term life policies. Notify all life insurance carriers of your loved one's death. Notify Creditors and Pay off Balances Work with creditors to pay off any outstanding balances. Usually, the executor of the estate will handle debt liquidation. Don't let lenders "guilt" you into paying more than the estate can afford; you aren't personally liable for your loved one's debts unless you're married (for some debts) or are a co-signer on a loan. Discontinue Utilities and Subscriptions If the house or apartment will be vacated, ensure that utilities are shut off. You should also stop subscriptions of newspapers and magazines. Forward the Mail Verify that important mail gets to where it's needed—most likely, to the executor of the estate. To do this, go to the local post office and request a form to forward the mail. Inventory and Distribute Belongings You might want the help of family members and close friends to sort through personal belongings. Determine which of the deceased's belongings to keep, which to distribute to family and friends, and which to donate or sell. File the Deceased's Final Tax Return Ensure that the executor of the estate or the accountant has the information necessary to file final tax returns. Take Care of Yourself Attending to the affairs of your loved one can be painful, exhausting, and time-consuming. Make sure you take some time to relax, reflect, and do what you need to take care of yourself during this time as well. 5 Sources Verywell Health uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read our editorial process to learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, National Institute on Aging. What to do after someone dies. AARP. What to do when a loved one dies. Social Security Administration. Survivors benefits. U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. Burial benefits. Federal Trade Commission. Debts and deceased relatives. 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