Brain & Nervous System Autism 6 Important Things to Know About Autism By Lisa Jo Rudy facebook twitter linkedin Lisa Jo Rudy, MDiv, is a writer, advocate, author, and consultant specializing in the field of autism. Learn about our editorial process Lisa Jo Rudy Medically reviewed by Medically reviewed by Nicholas R. Metrus, MD on January 16, 2020 linkedin Nicholas R. Metrus, MD, is a board-certified neurologist and neuro-oncologist. He currently serves at the Glasser Brain Tumor Center in Summit, New Jersey. Learn about our Medical Review Board Nicholas R. Metrus, MD Updated on January 15, 2021 Print If you're the parent of a child with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), you're likely well-informed about its symptoms and implications. However, other people in your child's life—relatives, friends, and teachers—may not know much about ASD and therefore may make assumptions. It can be frustrating when people have misconceptions, are judgmental, or offer unsolicited advice. Here are some of the key things about autism to share with others and to clear up any misunderstandings. 1 Not All People With Autism Are the Same Charly Franklin Collection / Photographer's Choice / Getty Images Autism is called a spectrum disorder precisely because it is characterized by a broad range of symptoms and abilities. People with autism can be high-functioning, low-functioning, or somewhere in-between. They can be highly intelligent and verbal, or cognitively challenged and nonverbal. The most significant shared symptom among people with ASD is difficulty with social communication, such as making eye contact, conversation, or understanding another's perspective. A Misunderstood Diagnosis One reason for the confusion about what it means to have ASD is that diagnostic terms have changed over time. Prior to 2013, when the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual for Mental Disorders (DSM-5) came out, a diagnosis of Asperger's syndrome indicated high-functioning autism, while "autism" suggested a more severe disorder. As of 2013, Asperger's no longer exists, and all people on the autism spectrum receive the same diagnosis of ASD. 2 There Is No Cure for Autism There is no known cure for autism, nor do people "outgrow" it. Autism is a lifelong diagnosis. Intensive early intervention may reduce ASD symptoms, and there are many effective treatments that address the sensory, behavioral, developmental, and medical symptoms of ASD. Depending upon the child, certain treatments will be more successful than others. People with autism can also learn coping skills to help them manage their difficulties and even build on their unique strengths. Is It Possible to Outgrow Autism? 3 There Is No Known Cause of Autism No one knows exactly what causes autism. Researchers believe it may be caused by a combination of genetic and environmental factors. Pregnancy complications and parental age may also increase risk. The notion that vaccines or "bad parenting" cause autism has been widely debunked by the medical community. Vaccines Do Not Cause Autism 4 There's No "Best" School for All Children With Autism You may have heard of a wonderful "autism school," or read of a child doing amazingly well in a particular type of classroom setting. While a given setting may be perfect for a particular child, every child with ASD has unique needs. Decisions about the best type of education for a child with autism are generally made together by parents, teachers, administrators, and therapists who know the child well. Pros and Cons of Autism-Only Schools 5 People With Autism Have Feelings and Emotions People with autism are capable of feeling and expressing love, though some do so in idiosyncratic ways. Most are also able to have close relationships, including romantic relationships. A person with ASD may need help developing empathy because they may not be able to interpret what other people are feeling based on their body language. Downcast eyes or a turned back, for example, don't necessarily signal "sadness" or "anger" to a person with autism. However, if someone explains that another person is feeling sad or hurt, a person with ASD can respond with true empathy. How Autism May Affect Sympathy and Empathy 6 Families Dealing With Autism Need Help and Support It can be hard to ask others for support, especially if they misunderstand the nature of autism. Therefore, one of the most important things to convey to family and friends is that having an autistic child can be hard. Even high-functioning autism can be challenging—for the person diagnosed with it as well as their family. For a family affected by severe autism, daily life can be overwhelming. If you're feeling stressed, you need all the non-judgmental help you can get from friends, extended family, and service providers. Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! Sign up for our Health Tip of the Day newsletter, and receive daily tips that will help you live your healthiest life. Sign Up You're in! Thank you, {{form.email}}, for signing up. There was an error. Please try again. What are your concerns? Other Inaccurate Hard to Understand Submit Article Sources Verywell Health uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read our editorial process to learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy. National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke. Autism spectrum disorder fact sheet. Updated August 13, 2019. Autism Speaks. Autism diagnosis criteria: DSM-5 Autism Speaks. What causes autism? Autism Speaks. 11 myths about autism.