Where Did Your Appetite Go?

Decreased Appetite and Weight Loss at the End-of-Life

Decreased appetite and it's resulting weight loss is common with many life-threatening illnesses and it’s a symptom that some patients report just as distressing, if not more so than pain. Ill patients know they need to eat but sometimes can't bring themselves to do it. Why does this happen?

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You may find yourself wondering how you can help. What foods can you make that will tantalize the appetite? How can you stop the weight loss or even reverse it?

Before you whip up every one of your loved one's favorite dishes, wielding your spatula like a mighty sword, it’s important to understand why this battle is even taking place.

Anorexia vs. Cachexia

Anorexia is defined as the “lack or loss of appetite, resulting in the inability to eat.” This anorexia is different than the mental illness anorexia nervosa. It can occur with nearly all forms of life-limiting illnesses but is most common in advanced cancers. If caught early on, anorexia may be treated and weight loss reversed with nutritional supplements or increased consumption of food.

Cachexia is defined as a state of “general ill health and malnutrition, marked by weakness and emaciation.” It is also common in advanced cancers and AIDS as well as other advanced life-limiting illnesses such as congestive heart failure. Cachexia occurs in more than 80% of cancer patients before death and is the main cause of death in about 20% of these patients.

Causes of ACS

Metabolic Alterations 

In illnesses such as advanced cancers and AIDS, certain chemicals called cytokines are released by the body. The cytokines cause an inflammatory response within the body that can alter how the body metabolizes nutrients.

Physical Symptoms

Symptoms of the disease can cause decreased appetite and thus weight loss. Common symptoms that can result in anorexia include:

  • Pain
  • Dysgeusia – a change in taste, usually including an aversion to meat
  • Ageusia – loss of taste
  • Hyperosmia – sensitivity to smells, often causing aversion to foods
  • Dysphagia – difficulty swallowing foods
  • Dyspnea – shortness of breath
  • Nausea and/or vomiting
  • Constipation or diarrhea
  • Many more

Medication Side Effects

Medications used to treat illnesses or increase comfort can have side effects that cause anorexia. Many of the side effects are similar to the physical symptoms listed above.

Psychological or Spiritual Distress

Let’s not diminish or overlook completely the role of emotional, psychological, or spiritual distress can play in anorexia. The effects of the illness and the treatment, coupled with psychological responses such as anxiety or depression and spiritual reactions such as hopelessness, may result in diminished enthusiasm for food and/or a lack of energy to prepare and eat it.

Other Causes

Other causes of anorexia can easily be missed but may be significant. Examples include poorly-fitting dentures and infections of the mouth or esophagus.

Treating ACS

The first thing you should do is discuss the problem with your nurse or physician. They will help you develop a plan of care to address the contributing factors. The approach will usually be multidimensional, focusing on symptom management, nutritional support, medications, social services, and spiritual support. It’s important to remember that approaches to treating anorexia and cachexia in advanced diseases don’t always work.

Symptom Management

If there are symptoms of illness that are contributing to decreased appetite and weight loss, those should be addressed first. Pain, nausea, fatigue, and depression are the most common anorexia-inducing symptoms and they are usually easy to treat. If symptoms are a side effect of medication, your physician may want to stop the medication (if it’s not necessary) or try a different one.

Nutritional Support

There are two schools of thought regarding eating towards the end of life: One believes the ill person should only be eating nutritiously dense foods and the other believes the ill person should eat whatever he wants. Many people will hover right in the middle, offering nutritious foods and snacks but allowing indulgences from time to time. This is probably the most prudent approach. If your loved one is losing weight and has no interest in eating meals but loves chocolate pudding, for example, there is no reason to deprive him of it.

Some really tasty and highly nutritious supplements are on the market. (Ensure and Boost are probably the most popular.) Adding supplements to your loved one's diet can increase his overall calorie intake and help make up for any nutritional deficiencies.

Artificial nutrition in the form of tube feedings is a controversial treatment for ACS. As noted above, once a patient is cachexic, nutritional supplementation, including tube feeding, does not reverse it. Tube feedings can also have unpleasant or dangerous side effects and often increase a dying patient’s discomfort. 


Several medications may help patients with ACS increase their appetite and gain weight. Common ones include megestrol (Megace), steroids like dexamethasone (Decadron), cannabinoids (Marijuana), and Metoclopramide (Reglan). Ask your loved one's physician if any of these medications could help. Physicians will usually try one or more of these medications for a time and discontinue them if they are ineffective. It’s important to note here that the smoked form of marijuana is still illegal in some states.

Psychosocial and Spiritual Support

Anxiety, depression, family stressors, and other emotional and spiritual factors may contribute to ACS. Decreased appetite can also lead to a patient feeling isolated from loved ones as meals are times for socialization. A medical social worker (MSW), chaplain, or psychotherapist may be able to help your loved one work through such feelings.

What Can You Do to Help?

With so many factors that can contribute to a diminished appetite, you might find yourself feeling defeated already. While it's important to keep in mind that your efforts at increasing an appetite may not work, it's equally as important to not give up hope. Explore these eight ways to whet an appetite for tips and tricks to stimulating a decreased appetite. Working together with your healthcare provider will prove the most effective way of rescuing a fading appetite.

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Additional Reading
  • Ferrell BR, Coyle N. Textbook of Palliative Nursing, 2nd Edition. Oxford Press, 2006.
  • Kinzbrunner BM, Weinreb NJ, Policzer JS. 20 Common Problems: End of Life Care. McGraw-Hill, 2002.

By Angela Morrow, RN
Angela Morrow, RN, BSN, CHPN, is a certified hospice and palliative care nurse.